As for the blame, Chris, I have to disagree. Saying that you, the user, are the first to blame before the stalker is pretty backward. If you are stalked, regardless of how careless you may have been with your information, you are not to blame for someone else's inappropriate behavior.
I agree that there is an onus on users to be responsible and protective of their information to a certain degree, but we shouldn't be creating the expectation that everyone better lock up their stuff nice and tight or else stalking is fair game (not what you said, I know, but hopefully the point is clear).
The blame for inappropriate behavior is first and foremost on the person behaving poorly. There are things we can do to protect ourselves from bad behavior, but failing to do them doesn't mean that we are to blame for the behavior.
@Erin - Thanks, sorry your original comment got refused, they are fixing that for me (as in my IdoNotes blog had the same issue).
Well I tend to disagree on some of that. While we would love to have an open dialog and everyone will behave, it just isn't possible. So providing either secured (to trusted friends) or limited info (such as not exact locations) is required. Sounds like we could have a conversation on this.
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Yes this is a blatant theft of the outline that Jess uses on her page, but I asked permission. Why?? Because I am a hardcore admin and can make ugly tables to make you developers frustrated, but this was too nice to pass up.
Yes, I write some of those dreaded admin cert exams you take. I won't say which ones so you don't come looking for me, but I will say they are the real good recent ones that have been coming out.
One dog, a Pug. He has been on this world before and seems to understand slippers and a fine cigar. Mind you that is him in the chair and not me.
Let us now also add a deranged cat that is in the process of being toilet trained. Update: Toilet traning was very very close.
Non-stop. At my desk, in my car, walking to work and back to my car downtown. In the house there is a crazy zoned set-up for you home automation geeks.
I am a self-proclaimed MP3 fiend, to which I have tried rehab 4 billion times to no avail. Next is the MP3 hard-drive for the car that I found. Now what kind of music you ask? I will never tell.
Get back to you here
Hershey’s Stomach of Holding: Jess and I are fighting over who eats more chocolate. TWDUFF can help me out and vouch for me.
This will take far more time than I have today. I will start with I was born and still live in St. Louis, MO. Even though for a couple years I was never, ever here and always on the road, this is smack in the middle of the US. Everything is just a few hour flight. That part is nice. No beach/ocean/coast isn't the best. But with the travel I make up for it.
Looking to find me in person? Here is where I will be.
|delayed||customer visit||Minneapolis, MN|
|Mar 31 - Apr 4||Lotus Notes and Domino 8 Upgrade Seminar||Copenhagen, Denmark|
|Apr 30 - May 2||Admin2008||Boston, MA|
|May 10 - 15||Lotus Notes and Domino 8 Upgrade Seminar||London|
|Jun 4 - 6||Irish Lotus User Group 2008||Dublin, Ireland|
|Jun 16 - 19||Lotus Notes and Domino 8 Upgrade Seminar||San Francisco, CA|
|Jun 21 - 29||Vacation||Some island I am not telling you|
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